We did a small art project in the afternoon during the normal art slot, but then the last hour of the day was set aside for my going away picnic. They presented me with the card, and then the girls did their little skit which ended in a dance. Well, the girls ended up welcoming everyone up to the mat to dance at the end, and one of the students came and grabbed my hand to come dance with them. It was a lot of fun! Ms. Kate left the room to go check on the pizzas, and as soon as she did that a student called my attention to a little girl at her desk crying. I went so see what was wrong, expecting her to be upset about not wanting to dance or about something one of her friends said to her. Nope. She was sobbing and saying, “I don’t want you to go!” I gave her a big hug, brought her up to the mat with me to dance around. Well, this started a chain reaction and before I knew it I think 15 out the 20 students were crying. A few of the boys, too… They didn’t just have the sniffles with tears running down their faces. No, they were sobbing… loudly... “We don’t want you to go! Please stay. You can’t leave us!” I had no clue what to do! In a way I was honored because I never could really tell if I was making a connection with them, so that really taught me that my influence goes beyond what I see and feel. This can be a positive or negative influence so I need to be extra careful of what I say at all times.
I tried giving hugs, talking to them, and doing anything to comfort them. I wasn’t making any progress. At one point I just had to go behind the desk, turn around, chuckle to myself and say, “What the heck is going on?!?” Finally, Ms. Kate came back and was helpful in calming them down. The food that she brought with her was helpful as well. We had some pizza, although some students had a hard time eating it because they couldn’t catch their breath from all of the crying. We ended up going outside them for a little while to continue the picnic, hoping that some fresh air would help. It did. We had some snacks, and then I joined in with the students as they all played a game. It really was a great ending to a wonderful eight weeks.
Because we were already outside, it wasn’t an organized dismissal. Once the bell rings they are allowed to just go straight to the bus or the cafeteria to be picked up. I think this was a good thing. The majority of the kids did come back to me and give me a hug, and a few started crying again, but I assured them we would stay in touch. It was definitely sad to see them go.
The one student who gave me a tough time in the beginning but ended up developing a special relationship with kept his distance all day. He had been talking to me all week about leaving, but Friday was a different story. He seemed to be pretending it was just another day. I think that was the only way he could cope with it. He has a lot of history and has been through a lot. I was sad when he left and didn’t say anything to me, but Kate assured me that I shouldn’t let it bother me because he doesn’t know how to deal with things like that.
Kate and I headed inside, got my things together, and we walked up to the main school. I said goodbye to the director of the school, the lower school principal, and a few other teachers. Surprisingly, I was still holding things together. Well… it came time to say goodbye to Kate, and it was really hard. The difficult part is knowing that I will probably never see her again. She has been an incredible role model for me, and I will surely miss her. We shared a quick hug, dos besos, and then parted. Then the tears started coming. That really made things set in for me. I walked right outside and saw Zuni (the nanny) with the kids, and she saw that I was upset. She just asked how my day was, and she thanked me for the letter that I wrote her. That made the tears come even stronger.
After a bit of time, we loaded up the car. As I was waiting for all of the kids to get settled in so I could climb in I heard, “Miss Jessie, Miss Jessie!” I looked around the corner and I saw my buddy getting out of his car and running towards me. His dad looked at me with thankful eyes and said, “He really wanted to say goodbye to you.” He gave me a big, quick hug and jumped right back into the car. I was so happy but also sad at the same time… a very bittersweet moment. I hopped in our car and started my last ride home from school.


Because all of my bags were already packed, downstairs, and ready to go, I didn’t have too much to do when I got home. I made a few last minute changes to my packing and took my bags outside. I went into the kitchen to give my keys to my host-mom, thank her, and say goodbye. We had a nice conversation. I think we talked more that 15 minutes than we ever have my whole time (other than the car rides to and from school). It made me sad that this didn’t happen more often during my time there.
Igor came and that meant it was time to say goodbye to my family. I gave Zuni a BIG hug and thanked her for everything. I really hope we are able to keep in touch. Gabriela started crying as well, but I assured her we could email and maybe even Skype! I don’t know that it really fazed the boys that I was going, but despite all of the challenges at home, It was hard to say goodbye.
Ana came to the gate with me and helped me load up my bags into Igor’s car. After dos besos and many thanks, Igor and I were on our way out of Pijoville. (Pijo is kind of hard to translate, but it means rich, stuck-up, and slightly arrogant. I never thought I would be even a little sad to leave there. That was bittersweet. I had always kind of resent the fact that I was living in the most un-Spanish city in Spain, much less in an urbanizacion (neighborhood) that was basically a country club where people had swimming pools, gates to their driveways, and even clothing dryers. It wasn’t the place that I was sad to say goodbye to, but it was the people. I really was blessed to have a place to stay that I didn’t have to pay a penny for.
Igor and I headed towards Santander to pick up Oscar, and then it was carretera (like “time to hit the road!”) to Picos de Europa, a national park with beautiful snow-capped mountains. We rented a cabin up in the mountains, and it was incredible. I can’t say much about the view because there were low clouds both days we where there, but he cabin was amazing. And, the view of what I could see was still gorgeous. We got settled in our cabin and then headed down the mountain to the little town of Potes and had a few drinks while we searched for a good restaurant for dinner. We were successful! The amount of food was incredible but it was SO good. You get to choose your first plate (usually pasta or rice or something like that) from about five different options, then you choose your second plate (the meat) from about five other options, and then you get a dessert and coffee when you’re finished. After my first pate was brought out (arroz con pollo- rice with chicken), my eyes bugged out. It was more than enough to be a complete meal on its own. Well, about ten minutes after the first plates were taken away our second plates were brought out. Once again, I couldn’t believe that this was a second plate! I ordered some cut of beef, and it was quite large, and quite delicious! After café, dessert, and quite a few good laughs we headed back up to our cabin and sat around the table chatting until about 3am.
It was wonderful to get some sleep. I think I got more Friday night than I had in about two weeks, and the 6 hours Friday night wasn’t even that much. It was also nice to have a relaxing morning. We got up, showered, and headed down to Potes for breakfast. Igor stayed at the restaurant to do some work while Oscar and I did some shopping and exploring around the town. All of the other weekends were absolutely incredible, but this one was nice as well because it had a relaxation aspect… a much needed relaxation aspect. The town was under fiesta, so there was an area set up where a company who raises cows had a HUGE stand set up and was giving out free samples of their beef and cheese. My gosh… these free samples were just like the tapas in Granada. HUGE! You better believe we went back through the line three or four times. Lunch? Done. We then took a seat on the ground to watch a few shows. The first was a group of people dressed in typical Cantabrain native clothing, and they played music, sang, and danced. Attention was then shifted to a group of guys who did different strength training exercises as a competition. This was all done as exercise in the past so they would be strong to go to the mountains to hunt and build homes. They were jumping on sticks (hard to explain), sawing logs, cutting stumps, carrying heavy barrels of water… it was actually really entertaining, and the things they did were incredible!
After sampling the typical drink of Potes and Cantabria, a cider, we headed back to our apartment and relaxed for the rest of the evening. We played some air hockey and foosball (futbolín), relaxed, and ate some dinner. After we finished our late dinner, Igor and Oscar showed me a video they had been working on. It was amazing! I think I’ve watched it about 50 times since I’ve been back. Incredible! They also presented me with a few parting gifts. I got an owl (of course!) and a Spanish flag from Oscar. Igor got me the book written by Washington Irving when he was at the Alhambra called, “Cuentos de la Alhambra.” Also the video was from him as well. I was not even expecting anything. Just their time and energy to help me “Experience Spain” were more than enough. We had to get up at about 3:30am to be on the road by 4am Sunday morning. My flight left from Bilbao at 8:35. Igor and Oscar came in with me and we had one last breakfast together before saying “see you later” at the gate. We knew for sure it wasn’t goodbye. They will be in Chicago next April for a wedding, but I have a feeling I will be seeing them in Spain before then ;)
I was truly blessed with the opportunity to live in Spain, do what I love (teach!), and travel. God sure is good! It has been a major adjustment coming home, and I am still not fully acclimated. I jumped right in to this time zone with my schedule, but my body still isn’t here! My heart isn’t either! The culture shock has been even more evident coming home than it was going there. With time…



(What we were supposed to see)


Thank you to everyone who kept up with my experiences! I thank you for all of your thoughts, support, and prayers along the way. It was definitely a life-changing experience; one I will remember forever!
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